Actually, it's more a matter of being responsible for yourself and not expecting or wanting big brother to do all your thinking and decision making for you.  It's  that thing called choice that liberals talk up a lot without knowing how to make them without a helping hand.  I guess all your choices are dependent upon your level of competence to act and do for yourselves.  Doesn't seem to work to well for most of you, since you need big brother to think for you.